Asking Tough Questions
Asking tough questions can be challenging for couples, but it is important for building trust, intimacy, and understanding in a relationship. It may take time and practice to develop the skills necessary to have these conversations effectively, but the benefits are well worth the effort.
How can couples use the following “Would you rather” questions which I recently came across, so I take no credit for building this thought-provoking list. So here goes…
1. Would you rather resolve our conflict or go to bed with unresolved issues?
2. Would you rather ask me or try to figure it out for yourself?
3. Would you rather watch movies at home or in the cinema?
4. Would you rather cook food for our date or eat out?
5. Would you rather have kids or dogs?
6. Would you rather live in a big house or a tiny home?
7. Would you rather stay in a toxic but high-paying job or basic salary with an amazing company?
8. Would you rather be with someone who’s smart or attractive?
9. Would you rather keep your social media accounts private or share them with me?
10. Would you rather be with a party-goer or a home-buddy?
Do you feel these questions allow couples to get closer to each other or can you add other questions to build on this list? Please share in the comment section below.
