As more and more women are flocking back on to the dating scene, here are some dating tips to kick start your journey as follows:
Know what you want: Take the time to think about what you are looking for in a relationship. There is nothing wrong with making a list of not only of your ‘want’s but your ‘do not want’. This will help you to focus on finding someone who is compatible with your goals, values and beliefs.
Be honest: Honesty is always the best policy. Be upfront about your intentions and what you are looking for in a relationship.
Be open-minded: It’s wise to be cautious, but try to keep an open mind when it comes to the kind of person you want to date going forward. Don't limit yourself to a certain age, demographic, physical characteristics or background. Your unconscious bias could be stopping you from developing an interesting and exciting dating experience with someone who could potentially take you out of your comfort zone.
Practice self-care: Taking care of yourself is important at any age, but especially when you are dating. Make sure to prioritise your own physical and emotional well-being, whether that means getting enough sleep, exercising regularly, eating more healthy or simply engaging in activities that bring you joy e.g. spa days, hiking, socialising with your friends and keeping up with your hobbies.
Be confident: Confidence is attractive at any age. Look at the likes of Angela Bassett, Viola Davis and Jennifer Lopez who exude confidence. Focus on your inner (not just outer) strengths and focus on what makes you unique and desirable. Don't be afraid to show off your distinctive personality. You don’t have to play the wallflower to make the other person feel more in control or powerful in the dating phase.
Take things slow: Don't rush into a relationship too quickly. It’s important to be safe. Take the time to get to know someone before committing to anything serious. Beware the narcissist and gas lighting - these are big issues, so know the red flags. There are some scoundrels out there, so trust your intuition and don’t be afraid to walk away if something does not feel right.
Try online dating sites: Online dating is not for everyone but it can be a great way to meet new people. There are many sites specifically designed for women over 50, which cater to a wide range of interests, so do your research and find one that works for you. Ladies, be warned this could become a full time occupation, so don’t expect an immediate hit!
Finally, it’s understandable that women will feel overwhelmed by the prospect of dating again, but just know the journey can be a fun and exciting experience at any age. Remember that you deserve to be with someone who treats you well and makes you happy. Don't settle for less than you deserve.
Share your tips, ideas and recommendations would give women over 50 returning to dating to increase their chances of finding a fulfilling and satisfying relationship in the comments section below.
