Narcissistic Abuse Support Group

Welcome to the Narcissistic Abuse Support Group, a safe and compassionate space for those seeking help, guidance, and understanding. Whether you're dealing with a love interest, friends, work colleagues, or simply interested in learning more about narcissistic behaviour, this group is for anyone who has suffered or is currently navigating narcissistic abuse.

We provide valuable information, share experiences, and offer the latest insights into narcissistic behaviour to help you stay informed, empowered, and on your path to healing. Whether you're here to gain knowledge, support a loved one, or find resources for your own recovery, this group is a place for everyone.

This space is dedicated to sharing, educating, and encouraging one another as we work towards building awareness, strength, and resilience. You are not alone—together, we can create a supportive community that fosters growth and healing.

The Power of Boundaries and the Courage to Walk Away

In leadership and in life, growth often begins with one simple, difficult decision, I will no longer tolerate what dishonours my worth.

Narcissists thrive in environments where entitlement goes unchecked and respect is one-sided. But the moment you draw a boundary, firmly and without apology, you shine a light on behavior they’ve long kept hidden in the dark. That light doesn’t just reveal their manipulation, it challenges their illusion of control.

Make no mistake, the empowered individual who says “enough” is not the problem. They are the beginning of the solution.

You see, narcissists are not angered because you've wronged them. They’re angered because you’re no longer willing to participate in the illusion that their needs matter more than yours. Their resentment is not a reflection of your failure, it’s a reaction to your freedom.

Let’s Talk Love Bombing 1.0  

Love Bombing 1.0 is  a quick fire post on the confusing charm offensive that too many of us have mistaken for “true love.” Imagine this,  you meet someone and suddenly it’s fireworks, front-row seats to their affection, 24/7 texting, surprise flowers and an engagement ring by week three.

Sounds like a fairy tale? Think again. This is less Disney, more psychological chess match.

Love bombing is not about love, it’s about control wrapped in compliments. This early phase of narcissistic or emotionally abusive relationships is designed to get you hooked fast. We’re talking about intense flattery (“I’ve never met anyone like you”), extravagant gifts, rushed future talk and constant contact, all carefully crafted to make you feel chosen… before they slowly chip away at your sense of reality.

But here’s the kicker, this isn’t always done with malice. People with trauma histories, ADHD, or anxious attachment may…

When Obsession Looks Like Love: Honouring Naso and Every Woman Fighting to Break Free

“As you begin to detach from a narcissist, you realise, it wasn’t them that made the connection feel so intense. It was your obsession that made them seem so special.” - Sri Kaiser

This quote hits hard because for many women, the moment of clarity comes not in the middle of the relationship, but at the breaking point, when love has long since curdled into control.

Keotshepile Naso Isaacs, known to friends and family simply as Naso, was a woman with dreams. A mother of three, she had just arrived in the UK from Otse, a village in south-east Botswana. She came here to rebuild, to give her sons a safer, stronger future. Her smile radiated warmth, her devotion to her boys was undeniable and those who knew her called her “a beautiful soul.”