When Inclusion Becomes Performance: The Risk of Being the ‘Only One’
“Representation without power is performance. But when you’re resourced, backed and believed in you don’t just take up space. You transform it.”

You’re in the room, but you’re not at ease. You’re asked to represent “diversity,” but rarely resourced to lead real change. For many women of colour, being the ‘only one’ in senior spaces doesn’t always feel like progress it feels like pressure. When inclusion is symbolic rather than systemic, leadership becomes a stage, not a seat of influence.
Organisations often equate visible diversity with meaningful inclusion. But visibility without structural support leads to tokenism, isolation and emotional exhaustion. You’re asked to speak on behalf of a community, correct biases, sit on every “inclusive” panel and still deliver KPIs. This unpaid emotional labour is packaged as opportunity, while your white peers advance without carrying the same cultural weight.
This has become even more apparent following the public dismantling of…