top of page

RelationshipTalk

Public·38 The Love Collective

Reactive Abuse:

When Survival Looks Like the Problem

ree

Ever found yourself yelling back, defending or lashing out after relentless provocation, only to be told you’re the abuser?


That is reactive abuse. A manipulative cycle where a narcissist pushes you until you react, then uses your response as “proof” that you’re unstable or cruel.


Remember:

  • Your reaction is a response to harm, not the cause.

  • Their goal is control and confusion.

  • Calm, boundaries and support break the cycle.


You are not the aggressor. You’re a survivor. 💪🏾


Please check out @Nigel Beckles on Supreme Radio with Annz discussing Reactive Abuse and more at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=efWyvvNLPcw&t=707s  


#ReactiveAbuse #NarcissisticAbuse #HealingJourney #KnowTheSigns



1 View

The Love Collective

bottom of page