Are You Having A Relationship Awakening?
“When you stand and share your story in an empowering way, your story will heal you and your story will heal somebody else.” — Iyanla Vanzant
Let me remind you of something deep and sacred today, your past, every broken piece of it, every tear you shed, every wrong turn you took in love was not in vain. It was the cocoon. It was the space where you were breaking, yes, but also being broken open… so you could fly.
You see, the butterfly does not look back at the caterpillar with regret. It does not say, “I should’ve crawled better.” It simply flies, knowing the crawling was necessary for the wings and just like that, you must honour your journey, even in love.
There is no shame in who you used to be. There is no guilt in the love you gave. What matters now is who you’re becoming and you are becoming powerful. Beautiful. Whole.
Here are five truths to carry into your next chapter:
You don’t need to apologise for the version of you that loved with all her heart. She was learning.
You don’t have to hold on to the people who were only meant to be lessons, not lifetimes.
Forgiveness does not mean reunion. Sometimes healing means loving someone from afar.
Your worth was never diminished by someone else’s inability to see it.
Healing is not linear, but transformation is inevitable when you choose you.
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Take a moment today to sit with a mirror. Look into your own eyes. Speak these words aloud:
“I forgive the woman who didn’t know. I honour the woman who stayed too long. I bless the woman who is rising now. I am her. I am becoming.”
Write a letter to the version of you who needed love the most and then burn it, bury it or bless it. Release her. You’re no longer her. You are the butterfly.
Rise Into Your Becoming
It’s time to stop circling the same stories. It’s time to reclaim your narrative not with shame, not in silence, but with sacred truth and bold intention.
Reflect on the transformation you are now embodying. What wisdom has your journey revealed? What strength have you reclaimed? These are not just private moments they are the foundations of how we show up in leadership, in love, and in life.
If this message resonates, we invite you to share it within your network. Your voice, your growth and your courage may be the reminder someone else needs today. Let’s continue to elevate the standard of love and leadership together.
