When the Excitement Fades, Don’t Stay Stuck in Confusion
In the early stages of a relationship, it’s easy to get swept up in excitement, hope and even fantasy. But what happens when that initial spark fades and the truth starts showing itself in patterns of manipulation, gaslighting or control?
Many people hesitate at this point, stuck between doubt and denial, wondering if they’re “overreacting” or waiting for things to magically fix themselves.
The reality is, when unhealthy behaviours emerge, hesitation becomes your greatest risk.
Neuroscience tells us that repeated exposure to manipulative or abusive dynamics literally rewires your brain’s fear and trust centers. You begin to question your memory, minimise your experiences and fall into emotional paralysis.
