BrothaTalk

The Heavy Silence:

Why the “Money Stops” Narrative Feeds Stereotypes About Black Men

At first glance, the statement “Men carry depression well because they know no one cares unless the money stops” seems like a truth wrapped in hard wisdom.

But when applied to Black men, this narrative does more harm than good. It reinforces an old stereotype. That a Black man’s worth is only measured by his productivity, his ability to provide, his financial utility.

Behind this idea sits centuries of racial, cultural and economic weight that too often leaves Black men trapped in silence.

Brothas, It’s Time To Check In!

"The cultural expectation to “be strong” or “man up” leads to delayed help-seeking and underreporting of symptoms, especially around depression, anxiety, or chronic pain."

During Men’s Health Week (9–15 June) this is a powerful reminder to pause, check in and take your well-being seriously, not just your physical health, but your emotional, mental and spiritual health too.

Let’s be real, Black men are least likely to seek help but most at risk.

In the UK, Black men are three times more likely to develop prostate cancer and twice as likely to suffer a stroke. High blood pressure runs disproportionately high in BAME communities, often without early warning signs. And while the numbers are alarming, the silence is worse.