BrothaTalk

What Your Sperm Color Might Be Telling You 

Let’s talk health, the kind too many men avoid.

Most men do not realise that their semen colour can be an important signal of what is happening inside their body. Before you scroll past, understand this. Sexual and reproductive health is not just about performance, it is about protection, prevention and longevity. 

Green Sperm 

When Menopause Enters the Room and Men Are Still Expected to Be Silent

Let’s start with a question.

What happens when the woman you love begins to change and no one ever told you why?

Menopause is often framed as a “women’s issue” but for many Black and South Asian men, it is a silent storm that sweeps through the home, the bedroom and the heart without warning, without language and without support.

Men are taught to be strong. Stoic. Providers.

From Statistics to Survival

The Unseen Crisis of Health

There is a quiet crisis unfolding in the health of Black men. According to the Centre for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), Black men in America have the lowest life expectancy of any demographic group, nearly five years shorter than white men.

The Black Men’s Self -Love Workbook

Created by Aswad Aarif, this workbook is designed for brothers who are ready to start the work of healing, growing and learning to show themselves the same love they give others.

The Black Men’s Self-Love Workbook is a guide to help brothers heal, reflect and build a healthier relationship with themselves. Inside are tools for managing stress, navigating trauma and cultivating inner peace.

Self-love is not an indulgence, it is the foundation for your wellness.

This book is an invitation to slow down, care for yourself, and connect with what matters most to you.

Prostate Cancer:

Get Tested. Do Not Let GP Gatekeeping Cost Your Life

Every great story has a turning point. For Black men in the UK, that turning point might be a simple blood test. Yet too many never reach it. Prostate cancer is the most common cancer in men and while it often grows silently, it kills loudly, claiming Black men’s lives at twice the rate of their white peers.

Neuroscience shows that we humans underestimate hidden risks. When there are no symptoms, the brain’s “optimism bias” whispers that everything is fine. But biology does not wait for awareness.

Early testing is the only way to catch this disease before it spreads and every year of delay means more fathers, sons and brothers lost.

Prostate Cancer, Why Waiting Costs Lives!

Brothas, this is straight talk.

Prostate cancer often has no symptoms early on, which is why so many men get blindsided.

In the UK, Black men face double the risk. 1 in 4 Black men will get prostate cancer (compared with 1 in 8 White men). Black men are also more likely to be diagnosed at a later stage, when treatment options shrink and outcomes worsen

This is not just a UK story. In the U.S., Black men have a 67% higher incidence and are about twice as likely to die from prostate cancer as White men. Those gaps reflect later diagnosis and unequal access to timely care not biology alone.

You Don’t Need Everything to Be Perfect to Feel Worthy

Somewhere along the way, many of us learned that our value is measured by our output. That worth only comes once we’ve “made it.” A promotion, a flawless bank account, a home that looks like a magazine spread. But the truth is, this belief is quietly stealing our wellbeing. Perfection is a moving target and chasing it often leaves us exhausted, disconnected and questioning ourselves.

In conversations with brothers from every walk of life; entrepreneurs, professionals, artists, fathers, there is a pattern. It’s not the work itself that breaks us. It’s the relentless, unspoken rules they’ve adopted about what it means to “deserve” peace or pride. These rules aren’t written anywhere, but they’re etched into habits and self-talk.

Here are five perfection-driven traps that quietly sabotage your mental health and create cycles of stress and anxiety:

1. Measuring worth only by achievement:…

Have You Been Tested Yet?

Too many of our brothers are leaving it too late. Prostate cancer doesn’t always shout, it whispers and by the time it gets loud, the fight is much harder.

Getting tested early isn’t just about you. It’s about time! More time to laugh with your children, share wisdom with your nephews, hold your partner’s hand or watch your grandchildren grow.

These three men caught it early. Due to the fact that they acted, they gained not just years, but moments, memories that might never have happened otherwise. Their stories are a reminder,. Men you cannot put this off.

Brothas, your health is your power. Do not wait until something feels wrong. Get checked. Get peace of mind.

When Men Cry.

The Hidden Cost of Emotional Silence!

 “Men cry. Men struggle” but saying it and living it are two very different things, especially for Black men.

For generations, masculinity has been policed by silence. Men are taught that tears are weakness, breakdowns are failure and vulnerability is something to be feared. Yet the research tells another story.

According to a CDC report, suicide rates among Black men aged 15–24 increased by 47% between 2013 and 2019. And Dr. Wizdom Powell, a leading health disparities researcher and clinical psychologist, warns that “emotional stoicism among Black men is literally killing us.”

Brothas, It’s Time To Check In!

"The cultural expectation to “be strong” or “man up” leads to delayed help-seeking and underreporting of symptoms, especially around depression, anxiety, or chronic pain."

During Men’s Health Week (9–15 June) this is a powerful reminder to pause, check in and take your well-being seriously, not just your physical health, but your emotional, mental and spiritual health too.

Let’s be real, Black men are least likely to seek help but most at risk.

In the UK, Black men are three times more likely to develop prostate cancer and twice as likely to suffer a stroke. High blood pressure runs disproportionately high in BAME communities, often without early warning signs. And while the numbers are alarming, the silence is worse.

REWRITING THE RULES OF STRENGTH

In every corner of culture, men have been told a silent lie, that to feel is to falter. That to struggle is to fail. That to speak up is to show weakness. But here’s what the research and real life tell us, what’s unspoken is often what hurts us most.

Stress doesn’t always look like breaking down.

• Sometimes, it looks like powering through.

When the Truth Comes Late, Who Pays the Price?

We’ve fought for justice in the streets, in the boardrooms and in the courts—but what happens when justice gets murky in the most personal of places: the home, the heart and the family? The question in this image cuts deep: If a man pays child support for years and later finds out the child isn’t biologically his, should the woman repay him? That’s not just a legal issue—that’s a moral one. That’s a question of accountability. Of dignity. Of emotional and financial equity.

Brothas, we’re not talking about walking away from a child who needed love. We’re talking about truth withheld. Science has evolved. DNA doesn’t lie—but people do. And when a man stands up, does what’s right and invests…

Breaking the Silence: Raising Prostate Cancer Awareness in Black Men

Dr Eva McGrowder, Senior Trial Manager, The Institute of Cancer Research, shares insights on the increased risk of prostate cancer for Black men below.

Black men have a higher risk of dying from prostate cancer due to several factors, many of which are interconnected and complex. Firstly, Black men are often diagnosed with prostate cancer at more advanced stages, which limits treatment options and decreases survival rates. This delay can be due to a variety of reasons, including lack of awareness, lower rates of screening, and limited access to healthcare resources.

Many Black men may not also fully understand their risk for prostate cancer or may be misinformed about the importance of early screening. This can lead to delays in seeking medical attention or in receiving regular screenings, both of which are crucial for early detection and better outcomes.

Lastly,…