What Emotional Abuse Really Looks Like:
Stories Behind the Data

It is easy to speak in percentages. It is harder to speak from the gut!
When we say emotional abuse affects 95% of domestic violence survivors in the UK (Women’s Aid), what does that really mean? It means women like the London entrepreneur whose partner insisted on 'managing her schedule' slowly cutting her off from clients and family under the guise of support. By the time she realised she was being controlled, he had access to her business passwords and financial accounts.
In India, where NIMHANS research shows high under reporting of psychological abuse, women are often discouraged from speaking out due to family honour. One woman, a dentist and mother, shared in an interview that her husband routinely humiliated her in front of patients.


