The Power of Boundaries and the Courage to Walk Away

In leadership and in life, growth often begins with one simple, difficult decision, I will no longer tolerate what dishonours my worth.

Narcissists thrive in environments where entitlement goes unchecked and respect is one-sided. But the moment you draw a boundary, firmly and without apology, you shine a light on behavior they’ve long kept hidden in the dark. That light doesn’t just reveal their manipulation, it challenges their illusion of control.

Make no mistake, the empowered individual who says “enough” is not the problem. They are the beginning of the solution.

You see, narcissists are not angered because you've wronged them. They’re angered because you’re no longer willing to participate in the illusion that their needs matter more than yours. Their resentment is not a reflection of your failure, it’s a reaction to your freedom.

When Obsession Looks Like Love: Honouring Naso and Every Woman Fighting to Break Free

“As you begin to detach from a narcissist, you realise, it wasn’t them that made the connection feel so intense. It was your obsession that made them seem so special.” - Sri Kaiser

This quote hits hard because for many women, the moment of clarity comes not in the middle of the relationship, but at the breaking point, when love has long since curdled into control.

Keotshepile Naso Isaacs, known to friends and family simply as Naso, was a woman with dreams. A mother of three, she had just arrived in the UK from Otse, a village in south-east Botswana. She came here to rebuild, to give her sons a safer, stronger future. Her smile radiated warmth, her devotion to her boys was undeniable and those who knew her called her “a beautiful soul.”

Things a Narcissist Will Never Do for You and Why Claudia Kambanza’s Story Still Haunts Us

They’ll never ask how your day was.

They won’t care about your tears unless it’s about them.

They won’t apologise from the heart, only to regain control.

They’ll never uplift your friends, your dreams or your truth.

The Circle Around the Narcissist Is Never Accidental

They don’t operate alone.

Narcissists are often surrounded by three types of people:

• Those who enable.

• Those who ignore.

When Silence Becomes Fatal:

Control, Not Accountability

They don’t want accountability, they want control. And when that control slips, some will kill to get it back.

This isn’t a metaphor. It’s happening in real time.

In April 2024, 27-year-old Kulsuma Akter was pushing her seven-month-old baby in a pram outside a women's refuge in Bradford, when her husband, Habibur Masum, tracked her down and stabbed her to death.

Never Again Knowledge, Healing & Protection After Narcissistic Abuse

Sis, let’s break the silence and speak truth in this sacred space.

Far too many women strong, intelligent, nurturing women have found themselves caught in the web of a narcissist or sociopath. And let’s be clear, it wasn’t because you lacked value. It was because they saw your light and made it their mission to dim it. But today, we take our power back.

The truth is, narcissists don’t prey on weakness. They prey on goodness.

They target people with open hearts and generous spirits. Women who forgive easily, who extend second chances, who see the best in others even when it hurts. But here’s the thing without the right tools, many of us didn’t even realise what we were up against. We mistook love bombing for love. We mistook gaslighting for miscommunication. We mistook control for care.

Breaking Free from the Narcissist’s Love Trap: The Case of Kyle Clifford

At first, a narcissist’s love feels like intoxicating passion—deep, all-consuming, and seemingly perfect. But like any addiction, the initial high fades, revealing a cycle of control, emotional withdrawal and devastation. The tragic case of Kyle Clifford, the UK crossbow killer, is a chilling reminder of what happens when narcissistic tendencies escalate into dangerous obsession. Clifford brutally murdered his ex-girlfriend, Louise Hunt, her mother Carol, and her sister Hannah in their home after she ended the relationship. His actions reflect the dark reality of narcissistic rage, where a loss of control can lead to deadly consequences.

Kyle Clifford’s case highlights the severe risks associated with narcissistic attachment, entitlement and violent possessiveness. After the breakup, Clifford was unable to accept that…