Let’s Talk Love Bombing 1.0

Love Bombing 1.0 is a quick fire post on the confusing charm offensive that too many of us have mistaken for “true love.” Imagine this, you meet someone and suddenly it’s fireworks, front-row seats to their affection, 24/7 texting, surprise flowers and an engagement ring by week three.
Sounds like a fairy tale? Think again. This is less Disney, more psychological chess match.
Love bombing is not about love, it’s about control wrapped in compliments. This early phase of narcissistic or emotionally abusive relationships is designed to get you hooked fast. We’re talking about intense flattery (“I’ve never met anyone like you”), extravagant gifts, rushed future talk and constant contact, all carefully crafted to make you feel chosen… before they slowly chip away at your sense of reality.
But here’s the kicker, this isn’t always done with malice. People with trauma histories, ADHD, or anxious attachment may…