9 Toxic Managers
- Sonia Brown MBE

- Jun 15
- 6 min read

9 Toxic Managers Sabotaging Your Leadership Career
In the world of high-stakes leadership, one mega project stands as a cautionary tale of ambition gone awry. The UK’s HS2 high-speed rail initiative.
Plagued by ballooning costs (now exceeding £100 billion against initial estimates), repeated delays pushing operations beyond 2033, scope reductions, governance failures and "collective failures" in contracting and delivery, HS2 exemplifies how toxic management styles compound into systemic disaster.
These are not abstract failures of policy alone. They reflect the human element, the very manager archetypes that erode trust, stifle innovation and drive talent away.
Drawing from the classic framework of toxic managers, let us dissect each type, illustrate through HS2’s alleged shortcomings, examine their career-long impact on leaders and offer actionable strategies grounded in management studies, behavioural science, neuroscience and insights from Black academic research on navigating bias, intergenerational trauma and cultural dynamics.
1. The Micromanager
This leader hovers, controls every detail and erodes trust. In HS2, excessive oversight, "gold-plating" of designs and bespoke engineering driven by top-down mandates, led to inefficient delivery and missed scope realities, contributing to massive cost overruns.
Micromanagers burn out teams and themselves, appearing "detail-oriented" early but stalling promotions as they fail to scale. Neuroscience shows chronic control activates the amygdala’s threat response in subordinates, impairing prefrontal cortex function for creativity and problem-solving.
Intergenerational and cultural pressures (e.g., high power-distance norms in some communities) can amplify this. Black leaders may micro manage as a protective response to bias scrutiny. Management studies recommend outcome-based check-ins and delegation training. It is important to build psychological safety to counter hyper vigilance.
Trry to push for measurable outcomes. Document wins visibly.
2. The Credit Stealer
They claim team successes but vanish during failures. HS2’s political stakeholders and executives often highlighted early aspirations while distancing from overruns and cancellations, leaving delivery teams holding the bag.
Short-term gains erode long-term reputation. Teams disengage, turnover rises. Behavioural economics highlights reciprocity norms, violated trust kills collaboration.
CC stakeholders early. Black academic perspectives (e.g., on double jeopardy for Black women leaders) emphasise visibility strategies amid bias, where successes are downplayed.
This is the time to foster inclusive credit cultures.
3. The Gas lighter
This manager denies conversations, manipulates facts, making others question reality. HS2 reviews cite shifting political priorities, inadequate oversight and inconsistent narratives around costs and timelines as key issues.
Gas lighters create paranoia, reducing reporting of risks. Neuroscience links this to sustained cortisol elevation, harming memory and decision-making.
Cultural gaslighting intersects with racial bias, Black professionals report heightened scrutiny and dismissed concerns. Research by scholars like those examining intersectional biases advocates documentation and ally networks.
Always email summaries and follow-ups. Do not leave agreements verbal.
4. The Ghost
Always absent in crises, first to blame. HS2 governance showed blurred accountabilities and failure to evolve structures, with leaders "nowhere to be found" during critical delivery phases.
Ghosts survive by deflection but plateau as unreliable. Teams build parallel structures, diminishing the leader’s influence.
Behavioural studies stress accountability voids breed cynicism. For leaders from underrepresented backgrounds, intergenerational expectations of "proving worth" can lead to overcompensation or withdrawal. Counter with clear roles and transparent systems.
This is the time to establish accountability frameworks independent of individuals.
5. The Volcano
This manager explodes over minor issues, creating eggshell cultures. HS2’s high-pressure environment, with rushed contracts and capability gaps, likely amplified reactive outbursts, undermining morale amid delays.
Chronic stress shrinks innovation. Amygdala hijacks impair executive function, leaders and teams make poorer decisions under volatility.
In some intergenerational contexts, expressive anger is normalised, in others (e.g., expectations on Black leaders to be "twice as good" without emotion), it is weaponised.
This is where neuroscience-backed emotional regulation training is key. Document patterns, stay brief and escalate to HR.
6. The Favourites Player
Rewards proximity over merit. HS2 contracting allegedly favoured certain partnerships, contributing to "collective failure" and value-for-money issues.
Talent flees and diversity suffers. This perpetuates echo chambers, especially harmful amid cultural and intergenerational divides. Black feminist thought and leadership studies urge merit-based systems and relationship-building beyond inner circles to combat affinity bias.
Let results speak. Build inclusive networks that help the team to thrive.
7. The Insecure Boss
We all have met this leader. The one who undermines talent to protect their ego. In HS2, threats from external expertise may have led to siloed decisions and resistance to change course in time and make necessary corrections.
This manager will create quiet quitting and exits from their team. Insecure leaders project vulnerabilities rooted in personal or systemic bias.
Neuroscience of imposter syndrome intersects with stereotype threat for marginalised leaders. Management research recommends vulnerability as strength and team victory framing.
Moving forward co-create successes while planning graceful transitions.
8. The Change Blocker
This manager appears to be agreeable and nods to ideas but sabotages execution. HS2 faced resistance to adaptive governance despite clear signals of escalating costs.
They will block personal growth in dynamic environments. Behavioural inertia studies show status quo bias amplified by fear.
To remain effective, define milestones, loop in stakeholders. Address intergenerational resistance through mentorship bridging digital-native and traditional styles. Visible progress metrics will weaken resistance.
9. The Culture Killer
Preaches values but rewards toxicity and disruption, driving good people out. HS2’s toxic environment allegedly enabled fraud risks and poor morale, widening the say-do gap.
Companies will experience high turnover, especially among diverse talent facing compounded bias. Studies link this to dehumanisation and mental health crises. Black academics highlight how culture killers exacerbate exclusion for women of colour through microaggressions and unequal accountability.
If you are experiencing this in your work place act fast, document gaps, escalate or exit.
From Toxic Traps to Empowered Leadership in the AI Era
Having examined these nine toxic manager archetypes and their devastating real-world impact through the lens of the HS2 project’s well-documented challenges, it becomes clear that individual leadership behaviours, when left unchecked, can scale into organisational and national failures. Yet every crisis also presents a powerful turning point.
The path forward lies in moving beyond awareness of what not to do and stepping boldly into a new paradigm of conscious, effective leadership.
Key Takeaway 1: Self-Awareness is Your Superpower
Toxic traits often stem from unaddressed pain points, fear of failure, bias-induced hyper vigilance, or outdated hierarchical models. Leaders report burnout, isolation and ethical fatigue as top struggles.
Key Takeaway 2: Bias, Intergenerational and Cultural Intelligence
Overcome these issues through deliberate and intentional practice. Create bias audits, cross-generational mentoring and cultural humility training. Black scholarly work underscores resilience strategies like affinity networks and narrative reclamation.
Key Takeaway 3: The AI-Empowered Leader
In a world of constant up-skilling and data intelligence, good leaders excel via psychological safety (Google’s Project Aristotle), emotional agility (Susan David’s research) and growth mindsets (Carol Dweck). Neuroscience proves safe environments boost oxytocin and prefrontal engagement for innovation. Evidence from mega projects shows adaptive, transparent leadership mitigates risks.

Be Your Best Self: Forging Empowered Leadership in the AI Era
True leadership transformation begins with intentional self-mastery.
Embrace daily reflection paired with structured 360-degree feedback as foundational practices that harness the brain’s remarkable neuroplasticity. By consistently reviewing decisions, interactions and outcomes, leaders rewire neural pathways, replacing reactive toxic patterns with thoughtful, adaptive responses.
Neuroscience research demonstrates that regular reflective practices strengthen the prefrontal cortex, enhancing emotional regulation and strategic thinking while diminishing the dominance of the amygdala’s fear-driven responses.
In today’s data-rich environment, investing deeply in data literacy and AI fluency is non-negotiable for evidence-based leadership.
Leaders who master these tools move beyond gut instinct or outdated hierarchies to make informed, predictive decisions that anticipate project risks, the very risks that escalated costs and delays in initiatives like HS2.
Continuous up-skilling in artificial intelligence, analytics and digital intelligence empowers leaders to model lifelong learning, fostering credibility and relevance amid rapid technological disruption.
Great leaders also extend their growth outward by mentoring across generational, cultural and identity differences while actively sponsoring under represented talent.
This practice not only combats affinity bias and intergenerational misunderstandings but builds genuinely inclusive cultures where diverse perspectives drive innovation. Drawing from Black academic research on leadership resilience and intersectionality, such sponsorship creates pipelines of talent that challenge homogeneity and strengthen organisational adaptability.
Equally vital is prioritising personal and team well-being.
Regular exercise, firm boundaries and alignment with a deeper sense of purpose have been shown in behavioural and neuroscience studies to lower chronic cortisol levels, reduce amygdala hijacking and improve overall cognitive performance. Leaders who model this balance prevent burnout, their own and their teams’, creating sustainable high performance rather than short-term intensity that characterises toxic environments.
Finally, focus on building anti-fragile teams that do not merely survive volatility but grow stronger through it. This involves cultivating psychological safety, clear accountability structures and collaborative problem-solving frameworks that encourage experimentation and rapid learning. In an AI-driven world of constant change, these teams become force multipliers, turning potential disruptions into competitive advantages.
The HS2 saga stands as a stark reminder that toxic management is far more than an interpersonal issue, it is staggeringly expensive at national scale, destroying value, morale and public trust.
The choice is clear. It is time to step into empowered, self-aware leadership.
Which toxic manager type have you encountered in your career?
How are you actively levelling up as a leader in the AI age?
Share your experiences and insights in the comments below. If this resonated, share this post with your network and pass on to a leader who would benefit from these insights. Let’s commit to building better, more effective leadership together. Let us build better together.




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