CareerTalk

The Survival Illusion:

What We Normalise Shapes More Than We Realise.

There are moments when strength is not strength at all, but survival wearing a convincing mask. Behavioural science shows that the human brain adapts quickly to what is repeated, not to what is healthy. Over time, what begins as coping quietly becomes normal. This is where many women find themselves, functioning, achieving, holding everything together, while their bodies, boundaries and self-worth pay the price.

One of the most overlooked patterns is how unprocessed trauma quietly shapes our relationships and identity. Neuroscience tells us that the nervous system learns safety through familiarity. When emotional inconsistency, over-responsibility or manipulation is repeated, the brain stops questioning it. We begin to call endurance “resilience,” even as stress hormones remain elevated and self-trust erodes. This is not weakness, it is biology adapting to survive.

The same patterns show up powerfully in toxic workplaces and…

Women in Leadership 2025:

What the Trends Mean for Black and Minority Women and What Must Happen Next.

Something has shifted in leadership, but not in the way headlines suggest. Progress has not disappeared. It has slowed, narrowed and quietly changed direction and for Black and minority women, that change has been felt first and hardest.

The leadership story of 2025 is not one of collapse, but it is no longer one of momentum either. After nearly a decade of steady progress, the pace of advancement for women has slowed and in some cases quietly reversed. According to LinkedIn State of Women in Leadership 2025, gains that once felt inevitable have stalled over the past two years.

What is often missed in headline summaries is who feels this slowdown most sharply. Black and minority women, already navigating steeper structural barriers, are absorbing the greatest impact.

The Generational Career Blueprint.

Every generation carries a psychological script shaped by its economy, technology, politics and trauma. These scripts do not simply influence attitudes, they quietly shape career choices, risk-taking, leadership styles and even what women believe is possible for them.

When you look at the workplace through a generational lens, you realise this is not just about age. It is about how each era was trained to survive.

Let’s look at why every era thinks differently and how it shapes careers, ambition and leadership for women today

The Hidden Advantage of Leadership:

Why Being Well-Spoken Changes Everything.

We often assume great leadership begins with strategy, but the real differentiator is far more understated. It starts with how a leader speaks, not in volume or authourity, but in precision, presence, and emotional awareness.

Communication is not a soft skill. It is a scaling skill.

Research from Harvard Business School shows that leaders who communicate clearly are trusted more, even when delivering difficult decisions.

When Your Nervous System Runs Your Career.

Most senior leaders believe their biggest obstacles are external organisational complexity, visibility, succession planning, politics at the top table. Yet, the real tipping point is seldom operational.

• It is internal.

• It happens in the nervous system long before it appears in performance data or executive perception.

I believe that in every woman’s career journey, there comes a moment when ambition alone is no longer enough. You cannot simply depend on your manager or wait for sheer luck to hand you an opportunity.

What truly moves us forward is the combination of clarity, discipline, and focus and yes, sometimes with a bit of luck, a good mentor, a self-help book that speaks to you, and a renewed attitude that fuels you.

Why? Because success is rarely accidental. I’ve come to realise that success leaves clues.

Whether we like it or not, it’s the result of daily choices that, over time, transform not just our careers, but our lives.

That is why the idea in this post struck me so strongly. A new mindset really can start in one day. A new habit can take root in just 21 days. In 90 days, we can build skills that…

Understanding the Need for Integrity-Driven Leadership

In today’s career landscape, talent alone is no longer enough. The future belongs to those who lead with integrity not just as a virtue, but as a strategy. Neuroscience experts and McKinsey research increasingly show that integrity, emotional intelligence (EQ) and deep self-awareness are what separate leaders who plateau from those who soar!

So how do we unlock that edge?

By aligning your inner state with your outer actions and building a leadership practice based on emotional mastery, self-honesty and neural consistency.