One in three adults will experience a period of problematic coping behaviours in their lifetime and over 70 percent of women report using food, work, shopping, alcohol or digital distraction to manage chronic stress rather than pleasure.
These patterns are rarely about addiction in the way we are taught to think about it. They are about survival.
There is a moment most women recognise but rarely name.
The slow, silent collapse that begins inside the body long before life around us notices. Stress does not arrive with fanfare. It creeps. It rewires. It erodes.
The biggest shifts in society come not from dramatic events, but from the accumulation of tiny, invisible pressures. Stress works the same way.
Anxiety is far more than worry. It is far more than nerves. For many people, it is a constant and exhausting force that affects how they think, how they work and how they show up in their relationships.
Society may accept stress, but persistent anxiety is often ignored, minimised or dismissed, leaving too many people to struggle on their own.
Anxiety impacts the whole body. It can affect sleep, concentration and emotional balance, but it can also manifest physically through headaches, nausea, muscle tension and even contribute to long term conditions such as high blood pressure and heart disease.
Hair health is not just a cosmetic issue, it is a reflection of what is happening inside the body. Nutrient deficiencies, hormonal imbalances and stress can all show up first in your strands. Research increasingly confirms that what you feed your body directly impacts the growth, strength and shine of your hair.
Let us break down what the science says about key vitamins and nutrients that support healthy hair growth and prevent loss.
We need to ask the question many avoid.
Why do we wait for betrayal, disease, heartbreak, a near-death moment or total collapse before we decide to change?
Why must the body scream, the relationship implode or the peace disappear before we finally say “I’m done living like this”?
Here is the real question.
These are the friends who constantly judge, correct or undermine you even in the name of "being honest."
Chronic exposure to criticism triggers the amygdala the brain’s fear centre leading to stress, self-doubt and a heightened cortisol response. Over time, this can weaken neural pathways related to confidence and emotional resilience (Harvard Health, 2021).
You need relationships that activate your prefrontal cortex where growth, problem-solving and empathy reside. Constant criticism shuts that down.
The MENTAL WEALTH: Reclaim. Rebuild. Rise. campaign is a leadership-led, culturally intelligent movement launched by the National Black Women’s Network and SistaTalk. It was born from a single truth, women of colour are carrying the emotional cost of systems they did not design and they are still expected to lead with grace.
This campaign reframes mental health as more than recovery. It’s about capacity. Sustainability. Legacy. Let us not forget the urgent need for healing systems, not just resilient individuals.
In every movement, there is a moment when the story changes. When awareness gives way to architecture. When silence is no longer survivable. For Black and minority ethnic women, that moment is now and it’s not just personal, it is neurological.
Let is begin with a fact from neuroscience. Trauma does not just happen to us it rewires us.
The amygdala, the brain’s fear centre, goes into overdrive. The prefrontal cortex, responsible for decision-making, begins to dim. Memory becomes fragmented. Logic short-circuits.
This is not a metaphor. This is what happens when you have endured narcissistic abuse, survived financial control or lived in systems that gaslight your very existence at home, online or in the workplace.
Self-care is a general term that describes everything you do deliberately for your mental, physical and emotional well-being. Self-care encourages you to maintain a healthy relationship with yourself so that you can transfer the good feelings to others.
However, in our 'rush' culture and overwhelming work, home, family and business responsibilities it’s easy to become stressed and worn out. Here are three simple steps to consider for taking some time to focus on what is essential for you and your personal self care strategy going forward.
1. Identify Your Needs and Priorities:
It is important to take some time to reflect on your life and identify areas where you may need more support or care and what habits are getting in the way of your self care routine. This could include physical health, emotional well-being, relationships, work-life balance, or other areas of your life.
Incorporating a steam and sauna as part of a pamper routine can have several benefits and is often touted as a skin saver. Here are 5 benefits of steaming:
1. It's relaxing and relieves medical conditions:
Steam-based therapies have been traditionally used to treat a variety of common conditions. Most of the world has seen its efficacy in relieving cold symptoms, chest and nasal decongestion and relieving headaches to name a few.
The heat from the steam and sauna can help to relax your muscles and reduce stress, which can promote overall relaxation and a sense of calm.
Lemon is a popular DIY beauty recipe and more importantly as a series of wide ranging benefits when used on the skin. Here are a few tips to hail the benefits of the Lemon:
1. Brightening:
Lemons are commonly used in skin care, as they increase cell turnover and slough away dead skin cells. As a result, many folks use lemon juice in hopes of reducing dullness, brightening the skin and even out skin tone.
It is high in vitamin C, which can help to reduce the appearance of dark spots and hyper-pigmentation
A manicure is a cosmetic beauty treatment for the hands and nails that involves filing, shaping, and polishing the nails, as well as caring for the cuticles and skin around the nails. No matter how hectic a woman’s schedule is, a manicure has become a sought after, grooming must.
Here is a snapshot of how professional grooming can enhance your look and mood as follows:-
Better nail health: The cuticle that forms over your nail will be dead, overgrown skin. A manicure can help to improve the health of your nails by promoting growth, preventing cracking and peeling especially during the winter months or immersed in water on a frequent basis.
More importantly, manicures help to reduce the risk of infection, developing fungi and avoiding infections.
Apart from being a nutritious food, oats are also utilised in various skincare products like facial cleansers, lotions and moisturisers. Adding finely ground oatmeal to a warm bath and soaking for 15-20 minutes can alleviate itching and soothe irritated skin.
Oatmeal contains antioxidants and anti-inflammatory properties, which make it a natural remedy for conditions like eczema, dry skin, and clogged pores.
Taking an oatmeal bath once or twice a day for 15-20 minutes is generally safe, but it is always wise to consult with a healthcare provider to ensure it suits your specific situation.
Here's how to prepare an oatmeal bath:
Coconut oil is a versatile oil that can be used for various purposes, including skincare. It acts as a natural moisturiser, effectively locking in moisture and providing relief to dry, itchy skin. Its anti-inflammatory properties, thanks to compounds like lauric acid and caprylic acid, help reduce redness and swelling associated with skin conditions.
Additionally, coconut oil supports the skin barrier, protecting it from external irritants and retaining moisture. Its antimicrobial effects make it beneficial for preventing infections.
Enjoy the benefits of homemade massage oils.
Why purchase expensive massage oils when it’s so easy to make your own? Combining coconut oil with several drops of your favourite essential oil e.g. lavender, lemon or peppermint, it does the job just as well; it’ll alleviate sore muscles while also tickling the senses and encouraging a mindful meditation.
This month we pause, reflect and celebrate life while raising awareness for breast cancer, a condition that touches millions of women across the globe. Louise Hay often reminded us that our bodies are always speaking to us and that loving attention is the greatest gift we can give ourselves.
Breast Cancer Awareness Month is not only about ribbons, campaigns, or statistics, it is a sacred reminder to listen deeply, to honour our health and to choose life by making check-ups a priority.
Breast cancer is now the most common cancer in the world. In the UK alone, around 55,000 women are diagnosed each year and in the U.S. over 280,000 cases are reported annually. Yet the truth is, when found early, survival rates increase dramatically. Screening and self-examination are not acts of fear, but acts of self-love. They whisper to the body “I am worth saving.…
The World Health Organisation estimates that more than 2 billion people worldwide are affected by micronutrient deficiencies, often called the “hidden hunger” because it quietly drains energy, weakens immunity and shortens life without always showing visible signs.
Every cell in your body is listening to your thoughts. Every organ holds memory, emotion and energy. When we neglect our bodies, dis-ease often whispers before it shouts. But just as the mind holds the power to heal, so too does the food we eat. Nature provides us with all we need to restore balance, vitality and harmony.
This is not just about vitamins and minerals, it is about listening to what your body is longing for on a deeper level.
When you are low in Vitamin C, your immune system may struggle, leaving you vulnerable to colds, infections and fatigue. According to the National Institutes of…
When you begin each day with thoughts that lift you, you line up with the energy of who you really are.
These affirmations are not about forcing change, they are about allowing well-being to flow.
Every time you speak words like “I am the best” or “My future is bright,” you invite your inner being to guide you toward clarity, ease and joy.
Sometimes the heaviness you feel isn’t a sign that something is wrong, it’s simply your body and mind asking for a lift. You don’t have to overhaul your life to feel better. Small, loving choices can create ripples of change that brighten your day and restore your spark.
When your energy feels low or you’re stuck in a fog, small, intentional actions can make a huge difference. By shifting your vibration, you not only uplift your mood but also create space for better health, creativity and connection.
Here are 15 practical ways to raise your vibration, fast:
There are moments in history where everything changes, not through a viral headline, but through quiet shifts in access, behaviour and power. COVID-19 was one of those moments. But what followed may be even more defining, the silent rise of AI and digital acceleration in healthcare.
While algorithms replaced admin and remote care replaced waiting rooms, an uncomfortable truth emerged, BAME women remain underrepresented and underserved. Not just in treatment, but in the design of the very systems meant to improve our wellbeing.
Let’s break it down.
1. AI in Healthcare and Who Gets Seen
Around 1 in 10 women will experience a mental health problem during pregnancy or in the year after giving birth. But for many Black, Asian and ethnically diverse women, the silence around this experience is even louder.
There’s a quiet myth embedded in our communities, that strength is the absence of struggle. That resilience means carrying the weight without flinching. But data and lived experience tell a different story. One where stigma, cultural pressure and systemic neglect collide to create an invisible epidemic.
This week is Maternal Mental Health Awareness Week and it’s time to look closer. Not just at the numbers, but at the narratives.
The term perinatal covers the full arc, from conception through the postpartum period. It’s not just about “baby blues.” It’s about recognising that serious mental health conditions like perinatal depression, anxiety and postpartum psychosis can and do affect anyone,…
We’ve been conditioned to believe that being constantly busy is a sign of success. That if we’re overwhelmed, we must be doing something right. But here’s the truth, stress is not strength it’s misdirected survival.
This simple idea, deeply rooted in mindfulness and neuroscience, reminds us that the mind lies when it’s under pressure. It shrinks your world. It tells you that everything is urgent and you are not enough until it’s all done.
Let’s reclaim the truth.
“Air pollution is the single biggest environmental health risk. Reducing air pollution could save millions of lives.” — World Health Organisation (WHO)
Let’s be clear: air is not optional. It's a shared resource, not a private luxury. And yet, in far too many urban communities—especially where our people live, work, and raise children—air pollution has become an invisible enemy.
According to the World Health Organisation:
36% of deaths from lung cancer are linked to air pollution
Juicing isn’t just a quick, refreshing drink—it’s a powerhouse of nutrients that can significantly enhance your health and well-being over time. Each juice is a simple, delicious way to incorporate essential vitamins, antioxidants and minerals into your diet. The long-term benefits are far-reaching, supporting everything from brain function to heart health, gut balance and glowing skin.
Incorporating juicing into your daily routine can help improve your mental clarity, boost energy levels, and even support your body's natural detoxification process. From the brain-boosting power of berries to the skin-rejuvenating benefits of kale, these juices provide targeted support for various organs and bodily functions. As you sip on these refreshing blends, you’re not just hydrating; you’re nourishing your body from the inside out, ensuring sustained energy and vitality in the long run.
Brain Boosting Juice
"Your body is speaking—are you listening? Every ache, every tight muscle, every breath you hold is a message. Let go, release, and make space for healing. When you soften, you strengthen. When you surrender, you rise."– Iyanla Vanzant
Anxiety doesn’t just live in the mind—it’s stored in the body. From the tension in your jaw to the tightness in your shoulders, stress manifests physically, often without us even realising it. If you’ve ever felt mentally exhausted yet physically drained, your body is carrying more than just emotions—it’s holding onto stress, worry and overwhelm.
The good news? You don’t have to stay stuck in this cycle! With simple, mindful movements, you can release stored anxiety, reset your nervous system, and reclaim a sense of ease and control.
Your body is always listening to the thoughts you think and the emotions you…
"Your energy is your power. When you release what no longer serves you, you make space for what truly aligns with your purpose. Let go, breathe and allow your light to shine!" – Iyanla Vanzant
Your energy affects every aspect of your life—your work, relationships, and overall wellbeing. Whether you're navigating corporate pressures, running a business, or simply striving for a healthier mind-body connection, releasing negative energy is essential for clarity, confidence and success.
Too often, we carry the weight of stress, negativity and emotional baggage that dims our light. But healing begins with intention—with choosing to realign, release and restore balance.
If you're feeling stuck, drained, or overwhelmed, it's time to clear your energy and step into your power!
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